Born under the sun-soaked skies of the Philippines and raised amidst the brisk Calgary winters, my journey began with little more than a dream, a well-loved laptop, a trusty

DSLR, and an unshakable belief in the power of potential. Today, I’m thrilled to bring you a platform that’s part socially conscious revolution, part sassy pep talk, and 100% committed to helping you become the best version of yourself.

I’ve always been fascinated by the human spirit. What makes someone thrive while others falter? What fuels joy, creative fulfillment, and success, even in the face of life’s toughest challenges? These questions have been my lifelong obsession. It’s this curiosity—and a dash of sass—that drives everything I do.

Growing up, I was a bit of a renaissance girl, dabbling in anything that sparked joy. Whether it was singing, scribbling stories in a notebook, painting walls with my own designs, or volunteering at shelters and orphanages, I was a whirlwind of passions. One day, I’d DIY my bedroom like it was a Pinterest board come to life; the next, I’d be hosting a bake sale to support a cause.

As I ventured into adulthood, I discovered food, fashion, public speaking, and the art of balancing 500 tabs open in my brain. I realized that my mosaic of interests wasn’t a hindrance—it was a superpower. Who said you had to stick to one lane when the whole highway is yours to explore?

But, life threw its fair share of curveballs.

After a divorce that forced me to confront what I truly wanted, I found not only the love of my life but also a renewed fire for crafting a life on my own terms. That chapter of rediscovery wasn’t just about falling in love—it was about falling in love with myself, my potential, and the joy of creating something meaningful. It gave me the courage to sprinkle zest into every moment and fuel my passion for helping others.

That shift flipped my world upside down. Since I was attempting to grow my side hustle into it’s own sus5tainable business (that’s a story yet to be discussed, stay tuned for that), it was no longer feasible as a single mom, with a single income. I went back to the 9-to-5 grind for the sole purpose of creating some sort of stability for my kids. They needed to see their mother in a routine, so they could get into their own routines and life would have some sort of normalcy. Though I really wanted to to be all-in with the entrepreneur hustle, I ended up piecing together odd jobs—retail, freelancing, teaching yoga, barre and pilates —in-between getting my kids ready for school, dropping them off (at that time there were 2 different schools) and picking them up in time for 3:50pm.

After years of therapy, reading and learning about myself, and the bff moms I made along the way that were my rocks of support, I became somewhat stable. Busy, lacked a social life, wasn’t at all glamorous, but there was some sort of stability.

Fast forward a few years…a top-level management role, creating a life with my Partner and 2 adult kids later, I can say that I - no, we - built something meaningful.

Now, combining my passions for design, wellness, and storytelling into a platform that resonates with anyone bold enough to chase their dreams, I have re-branded this site (which I have kept alive for some reason) to resuscitate my dreams where I can empower and inspire women who found themselves in the same position as I did.

The Sassy Diaries isn’t just a blog, podcast, or social feed; it’s a movement for every unapologetically ambitious woman who’s juggling a million things and still making magic. It’s for the Asian moms who dare to rewrite tradition, the dreamers who refuse to be boxed in, and anyone navigating the tightrope of life with wit, grit, and a touch of flair.

Because here’s the thing: Life isn’t about choosing one dream over another. It’s about embracing every facet of who you are and owning it—sass, struggles, and all.

So, whether you’re here for a laugh, a life lesson, or just a little inspiration, welcome to the ride. Together, let’s thrive, create, and unapologetically slay.